Wednesday, 21 December 2011

Burden of Life.

What makes loneliness an anguish is not that you have no one to share your burden, but Its dat; You have only yourself to burden your bear. So Instead jus put it down.

Once, a professor began his class by holding up a glass with some water in it. He held it up for all to see and asked the students, 'How much do you think this glass weighs?' '1 pound!' ....'2 pounds!' .....'3 pounds!' ......the students answered.
'I really don't know unless I weigh it,' said the professor, 'but, my question is: What would happen if I held it up like this for a few minutes?' 'Nothing' the students said.
'OK what would happen if I held it up like this for an hour?' the professor asked. 'Your arm would begin to ache' said one of the students.
'You're right, now what would happen if I held it for a day?' 'Your arm could go numb, you might have severe muscle stress & paralysis; have to go to hospital for sure' ventured another student. All the students laughed.
'Very good. But during all this, did the weight of the glass change?' Asked the professor. 'No,' replied the students.' 'Then what caused the arm ache; the muscle stress?
Instead, what should I do?' The students were puzzled. 'Put the glass down' said one of the students. 'Exactly!' said the professor. 'Life's problems are something like this. Hold them for a few minutes in your head; they seem OK. Think of them for a long time; they begin to ache. Hold them even longer; they begin to paralyze you. You will not be able to do anything.'
It is important to think of the challenges in your life, but EVEN MORE IMPORTANT to 'put them down' at the end of every day before you go to sleep. That way, you are not stressed, you wake up every day fresh, strong, can handle any issue, any challenge that comes your way!
So Friends , Just put it down... :)

Saturday, 10 December 2011

Mother, A word greater above all.

"A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never did care for pie." Tenneva Jordan
Normally, I miss my mother every single millisecond, every day; But Today right at this moment I miss her so much that I just feel this urge to write it down and this is dedicated to all the mothers in the world. I want you to know that nomatter how your children might behave or not listen to you, At the end of the day, You are the only last thought on your children's minds. 
I don't know if we have ever thought about it, specially boys, we never think about it. Scientifically, A normal person can only bear a pain of 45 Del but when our mother gave birth to us they had to reach a limit of 70 Del. Can you jus believe it?? It sounds pure frictional right?? But lets take it practically. Our mother had us in her womb for around like 9 months. Now, How about this, you carry a bag , you eat carrying your bag, you take shower carrying your bag, you go out carrying your bag, just for 9 days. It is just dead hard, and Think how our mother carried a whole single new body for 9 months and gave birth to us. I hope each and every one of you value this effort and be a good person for our mothers.
I once had a conversation with a new born mother and will never forget what she said. "I was born the day, I gave birth to my child". The most amazing words I ever heard in my life. I will olways cherish those words and deeply have it engraved it to my heart. Mother are just so great cause their love for us is greater than all. The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness. A mothers love is greater than every love that exists in this world more than the term humanity. Its jus so warm and deep.
I olways can feel my mother prayers everywhere I go and It is just so warm even shes not right here. I want to share briefly about my mother today. When I was small around grade 1, I guess; I suffered from jaundice, Can you believe it she left her job just to make sure I never had to suffer from any of those diseases? It still makes me so happy that I happy someone beside me that I can literally lean on when am very helpless. Every day I returned from school, nomatter how busy she would be; She would come home by 3 pm and prepare food for me, just so that I wouldn't have to fall sick again. I want my mother to know I appreciate every effort of hers to keep me happy and healthy on every step of my life. It did take a lil longer to realize it by I want to tell her, Never now will ever this son ever make u unhappy. You will olways be in my heart.<3 
If today was my last day of my life, You would be the last person I would want to visit
If this was my last second of my life, You would be the only last thought on my mind.

I Love you Mommu.

Tuesday, 6 December 2011


A very simple activity but extremely tough to perform .It can briefly be described as the action or power of focusing one's attention or mental effort. Dealing with particular thing over all above is definitely not as easy as it seem.
A wise man once said : "Through the study of books one seeks God; by meditation one finds him"
Let me start by some facts about our brain. A average brain is capable of processing 400,000 bits of information a second, what does that tell you? Unconsciously, We have a machine with us far more capable than a fifth generation computer which processes data (human thoughts) so quickly that, Without us knowing our brain would be working on different thought of our past, present or future. Might be creative, destructive, humorous, funny , idealistic or anything which sometimes cannot be even described in words. Taking the fact as it is, for every human beings, there are certain limit to which they can concentrate and there are some ways which helps on improving our concentration to an extreme forms.
The very important way would be to meditate, meditate and meditate. Meditation is a form of a practice where an individual trains their minds or self-induces a particular mode of consciousness to realize some benefit. Meditation have different methods which have been passed from ages and ages. The particular word have different meaning on different contexts. It has been practiced since antiquity. It differs for different people on different ways. People practice it religiously as an form of partial spiritual enlightenment or scientifically as an method of increasing the focusing capacity of their brain. Its form is just so endless. some does it by focusing on certain objects like light or certain point. But religiously, scientifically and individually people from around the world have found it to be very helpful. It increases our concentration power and amplifies it so quickly which results in improvement on brain and reminiscence powers.
That was all about improvement of our concentration by meditation but every one doesn't find it leisurely easy and takes some time before they start practicing meditation. There are some other basics of improving concentration powers. The first thing would be to have a clear mind set that we definitely want to concentrate. At first it is still difficult even though we have a clear mind set ready , So, we need to keep reminding ourself every moment we come back from the particular distraction saying aloud to ourself by using phrases like,"I have to concentrate", or "I am the man, I just gotta do it" or "I have to do it in any condition". It might sound silly saying it aloud but I have practically tried it and It sure helps loads. Sometimes we should act childish after we finish a task by praising ourself and smiling to ourself. It did feel weird at first, But People, Common!! you will get used to it. Normally, If you have a big day, you could make a note of your days task and follow it, jus to stay on better side.

I hope it helped. Please do send some feedback so that I could write more on other topic. I hope everyone builds a better concentration power, focus towards our goal and confidence tomove forward with heads held up...;)

Monday, 5 December 2011

Growth & Changes.

Often quotes are a form of inspiration to a human race, It amplifies the emotion, thought or just pushes human mind to think twice as much as it normally does but in an successive development form.

I would like to start today's note by a quote by Ellen Glasgow.
“All change is not growth, as all movement is not forward.”
It is one of my favourite quotes, A chance made just to change yourself is actually might not a good change, It is considered as a good change, when we change considering growth as our major aspect behind our change. It doesn't mean we are not to change, Because If we don't change for good, It just tends to change to worsen on its own. Our life revolves from an inch of an era to another where It demands changes and we are to follow the follow it. It is the basic rule of human race.
Growth whereas refers to increase in some quantity over time. It might be physical,mental or abstract. It can just be any major or minor aspects. Quantity refers to any number on above terms. Every kind of growth  requires moving forward; could be biological, financial, economical, environmental, behavioral, linear or many more. Growth depends upon our activities. There is absolutely no development physically or intellectually without effort, and effort means work.Growth can sometimes be very scary and uncomfortable cause it refers to stepping out side our normal comfort zone and change into something we might never have  expected caused by our self-activities, But growth is very necessity for each and every races on earth. We just have to have that virtue of patient as no-one's perfect when they are 20, It takes time and loads of patience and continuous effort and struggle to move forward and grow.
Powerful dreams supports Powerful actions, So Let us never stop our continuous effort and struggle towards our better growth and development with uniform changes in our life towards harnessing growth.

Sunday, 4 December 2011

First; Yet The hardest .

The first step seems to be the hard one, actually a really tough confusing phase. Actually, It stuck on my mind, If i had so much to convey and receive then why not open a blog and start it from today. No, actually from this particular moment. What I feel is , When we human , a very fragile yet a strong being achieve peace within ourselves individually with regards to our surrounding, together we as a human race can reach at a peaceful state. We have that ability to achieve a calmness within ourselves we just have to love our life so much that we have so much to offer and without any expectations. Have you ever thought how once smile on our face can affect thousands of life around us. let's all take some time off to think how selfish we are and how we are just for our-self so that the next morning we wake up we could at least be a little help to someone needy and helpless. living peacefully doesn't mean to just supplying all the needs and luxury to own self. It actually regards to life in a balanced life. People drive cars even when they are in deep pain due to their backache but Wouldn't it be much better if they took a bus ride??? I think It would be much better. we need a subcontrary life with a balance around us. We would definitely not like to have a house warming party, if we are not in a good relations with people around the place. Would anyone like to go shopping if the person just broke up with his/her partner even though he just recieved a huge promotion, Definitely a Big No. A peace of mine can only received with a perfect mind , body and soul. I pray for everyone happiness. LIVE LIFE, LAUGH LOTS, LOVE FOREVER... :)